What We Can Learn From Chad Johnson

Since being arrested last weekend for headbutting his wife,
Chad Johnson has been cut from the Miami Dolphins.
He's lost endorsement deals.
His reality show has been cancelled.
And now, after only 44 days of marriage, he's about to go through a messy, and COSTLY divorce.
Personally, I believe Chad's version of what happened when he says SHE headbutted HIM!
But I'm not interested in getting into all of that made for tv drama.
I'm more interested in the lessons we can learn from it.

There are thousands of Chad Johnson's all over the world.
Many of them don't have the financial avenues to defend themselves like Chad has.
Yet, many of them find themselves in the same position because they made the same mistake Chad made.
They decided to date or marry a woman based on her physical appearance, AND how the good the "goods" are.
I speak from experience when I say that some of the prettiest women
-and if I can keep it 100 with you-
some of the women with the best "goods" are usually the most insecure, and craziest women you will ever meet in your life.
These are the type of women who look the part of the perfect wife, but once you get into an argument with them, you realize that they're just as ugly on the inside, as they are beautiful on the outside.
But by that time, it's too late to turn back, and chances are they've already keyed your car, poured baby powder in your gas tank, or in Chad Johnson's case, attempted to destroy your name by claiming you physically abused them.

Fellas, there's a lesson to be learned here, and the lesson is this;
Be more selective with the women you decide to date.
Pay attention to the relationship she has with her parents and her friends.
Pay attention to how she handles herself when something doesn't go her way.
Does she voice her frustration by putting her personal business on social media?
Does she sit down and discuss her disagreements like an adult?
Or does she fly off the handle and act a fool in public or private places?

Unfortunately, Chad Johnson is about to pay a big price for ignoring all the warning signs.
If I understand correctly, she slept with him on the first date, while the cameras were rolling.
And he still decided to wife her?
Has Chad ever heard the phrase, You can't turn a h*e into a housewife?
-although if you're a housewife, you better be your husband's h*e-
(That's another blog for another day)
But I think the new saying should be;
You can't turn a reality chick into a housewife.
Most of these reality chicks are money-hungry, attention-seeking, golddiggers who are serious about their profession.
And they will stop at nothing to make sure the next episode of their lives are filled with nothing but drama.
I hope Kanye West is paying attention..............